Quiet.

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A busy life necessitates that I step away from writing for a while…although I have lots to write about I don’t have the time to make it a reality right now. With homeschooling the children, loving on a new baby, and caring for my family, there’s little time for me to  spend here at These Beautiful Days. I hope to be back after some time…..

Week’s End 4/26/13

A few notes from our week:

  • Spring has finally sprung! I love seeing all the green. We have finally started cutting our grass. It’s hard to stay on top of it; we aim to get it cut once a week. My two older boys handle it for us. :)
  • We are in the midst of Little League baseball season, which means long evenings, late bedtimes, and often, two dinners (one before the practice and game, and something to snack on afterwards). My kitchen is often a disaster zone.
  • Adam is six weeks old today! I do believe he has colic. In our case, he often cries when he’s awake during the afternoon and evening hours. I don’t mind it, though, but I’m glad he wasn’t my first child!
  • I truly had forgotten how long it takes to breastfeed a baby. I have to remember to carve out an extra margin of time around Adam’s feedings so that we can get to where we need to be or stay on schedule for an activity.
  • I’m thankful for my big backyard! It looks horrendous with its dirt patches, chipmunk hole pits, and sparse grass, but it’s so much fun for my kids to go out and play in the dirt out there. The boys play catch with the football and I find myself singing this song. 

Hope you had a great week…I’ve got a date night tonight and a church ladies’ tea to attend tomorrow. Here comes the weekend!

What to Leave Children (Spurgeon’s Faith’s Checkbook)

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The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him. (Proverbs 20:7)

Anxiety about our family is natural, but we shall be wise if we turn it into care about our own character. If we walk before the Lord in integrity, we shall do more to bless our descendants than if we bequeathed them large estates. A father’s holy life is a rich legacy for his sons.
The upright man leaves his heirs his example, and this in itself will be a mine of true wealth, How many men may trace their success in life to the example of their parents!
He leaves them also his repute. Men think better of us as the sons of a man who could be trusted, the successors of a tradesman of excellent repute, Oh, that all young men were anxious to keep up the family name!
Above all, he leaves his children his prayers and the blessing of a prayer-hearing God, and these make our offspring to be favored among the sons of men. God will save them even after we are dead. Oh, that they might be saved at once!
Our integrity may be God’s means of saving our sons and daughters. If they see the truth of our religion proved by our lives, it may be that they will believe in Jesus for themselves. Lord, fulfill this word to my household!

From the Faith’s Checkbook Mobile Devotional Android app – http://www.LookingUpwardApps.com/fcb

Life, Lately.

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Baby Adam is 4 weeks already!!!!!

Where in the world does time go!

I’m trying my best to slow it down, just a little bit. How am I spending my time these days? Gazing into little newborn eyes. Holding and tickling little newborn feet. Lots and lots of breastfeeding, and changing diapers. Rocking and singing lullabies. Talking “baby talk” in a syrupy sweet and ridiculously high voice. I love all of it. I was meant to be a mom!

For weeks before I delivered Adam, I dreamt of the that sweet newborn smell of a baby right after they are born. I smelled it with every single one of my babies. It is an indescribable fresh smell of a new life. I’m so thankful to have been able to experience it once more!

Some people hate diaper changes. I love it. I love to talk to my baby during the changes and tickle their little feet and tell them “mama’s gonna get you all cleaned up and nice and fresh!” I make sure I kiss those feet, too, before I’m done!

The middle-of-the night feedings are hard. But once I’m up and settled in to feed Adam, I think about how sweet it is to be rocking and feeding a baby. It is a privilege not every woman gets to experience and our good Father saw fit to allow me to experience it multiple times, and I am amazed!

Little Adam is already filling out quite nicely. Which in a way is bittersweet, because I know soon he won’t be so little anymore. I wish I could bottle up all of his newborn sweetness, to save for later, but alas, it doesn’t work that way. So I hold him tight, and cherish the snuggles and nuzzles, and thank God for all of it, every precious drop.

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Linking up with Sarah at My Joy-Filled Life!

2 1/2 Weeks.

It is such a sweet blessing to have a baby in the house again. One thing that is different this time around is that there is no shortage of siblings to hold baby brother, and I find myself frequently asking, “Can I have my baby back now?” :)

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We started back to school today. With only two more months left of school for the year, I’m confident we can make it to the summer. We have spring fever here, but no spring weather! Hopefully it’s on its way…..

He Is Risen!

“But now Christ is risen from the dead, and has become the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since by man came death, by Man also came the resurrection of the dead. For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive. But each one in his own order: Christ the firstfruits, afterward those who are Christ’s at His coming. Then comes the end, when He delivers the kingdom to God the Father, when He puts an end to all rule and all authority and power. For He must reign till He has put all enemies under His feet. The last enemy that will be destroyed is death. For He has put all things under His feet. But when He says all things are put under Him, it is evident that He who put all things under Him is excepted. Now when all things are made subject to Him, then the Son Himself will also be subject to Him who put all things under Him, that God may be all in all.” 1 Corinthians 15:20-28

Adam’s Birth Story

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I went to bed Thursday night feeling sore, but not really contracting. Around 1:30 or so, I awoke to some irregular but painful contractions. I decided to try to time them a bit, but kept falling asleep. A particularly strong contraction hit me at about 2:00 a.m., and then I felt and heard the familiar “pop” sound and felt a small trickle. I ran to the bathroom, and sure enough, I discovered that my water broke! I hollered to my husband, that “my water broke!” and he jumped up from the bed and together we started getting ready to call the drs. office and head for the hospital. Once my water broke the contractions started coming every 3-5 minutes, and they were extremely painful! We woke up the children, told them we were headed to the hospital, and that their Dad would be back by morning. We thought they would go back to sleep :) . (We later learned they did NOT go back to sleep!) The neighbor across the street agreed to be available to my children anytime we were at the hospital should they need an adult for any reason.

Once we got on the road to the hospital, we had about a 15 minute drive to get there. My husband was timing the contractions and they were coming every 3 minutes. What made us nervous was that I was already feeling pressure to push! We did have one child arrive fast, so my husband knew we better make it to the hospital on the double!

Once we got to the hospital, my husband jumped out of the car and got me a wheelchair and pushed me inside the lobby of the E.R. (After hours, maternity patients must enter through the E.R. entrance). He had the security guard valet park our van, and by now I was in tears and trying to breathe through the contractions. The lady at the front desk acted like she never saw a woman in labor before, and declared to my husband that he had to sign some paperwork. He told her that we didn’t have time for that, and asked “how do we get to the maternity ward?” She told us, and then reminded him that he would have to come back downstairs to sign the paperwork. My husband wheeled me up to the maternity ward, where it was a little slow, but once they heard me moaning and saw my tears all the nurses jumped into action. (I think what did it was that we said this was our 6th child!) I was quickly put in a room, and checked.   They determined I was at 5-6 cm. The monitors were put on and they asked me if I wanted an epidural. “Yes, please!” It seemed like it took forever for them to get me the epidural, but I was so glad I was able to get it! My husband quickly went downstairs to fill out the paperwork, and he returned in just a few minutes. During this time my contractions slowed, and after about an hour the dr. decided to give me a little pitocin. I had no trouble with this, and I knew it wouldn’t take long before I was ready to deliver. Sure enough, within the next hour and a half, the baby’s head descended into position (thank God!) and I was completely dilated. They called in the dr. and we were ready for action! 2 pushes and Adam was out! No episiotomy, no tears. He screamed and screamed, looked perfectly healthy, and had great Apgar scores of 9 and 9. I am so thankful to God for such a quick and successful birth and a healthy baby. It was my 5th VBAC and God answered all my prayers! After the baby and I were settled in our recovery room, my husband made it back home around breakfast time and discovered that instead of going back to sleep, my other children were so excited that they COULDN’T sleep, so they went downstairs and did their homeschool lessons until they got hungry. They made themselves some breakfast and when I talked to my husband around 8:30 a.m. he told me that they said they already finished their schoolwork already. I wondered how? Usually we are just getting our breakfast at that time! But it was because they did it at 3:00 in the morning! :)

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We came home after a 2 1/2 day stay at the hospital…we are settling in and learning how to be a family of 8!

Linking up with Sarah at My Joy-Filled Life!

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Baby Adam is here!

Adam Ezekiel was born on March 15, 2013, at approximately 6:30 a.m. He weighed 7 lbs. 2 oz., 19 1/2 inches long.
We are praising God for this wonderful gift! Pictures and birth story to follow….

39 Weeks.

One more week till baby’s due date. My history has been to deliver one or two weeks early, so I’m definitely in “the zone.” I’m trying to go along with my normal day to day routine, but each day I wake up and think, “could today be the day?”

The weather has felt great this week, which adds to a sense of spring fever. Little League baseball season has started for my boys and husband which means lots of evening practices and running around town. The girls like coming to the boys’ practices and games as they play with teammates’ siblings at the parks, and it gives them a chance to be outside!

I guess the most exciting thing happening around here except for the wait for baby Adam is that we recently made the move to purchase a bigger vehicle for our family: a 12 passenger Ford Econoline. I keep saying it, but I can hardly believe that we’ve outgrown our beloved Ford Windstar. We won’t get rid of it, as it will fit us if we travel without my husband, but our children are only getting bigger and we definitely needed more space. We got a good deal from a friend who owns a dealership who also sold us our minivan 11 years ago. So far I’m not having any trouble driving it, but I told the children it might be a good idea for me to get myself a booster seat :) .

Around the home, I’m making small victories managing incremental cleaning projects. One day I’ve cleaned the chandeliers, another day I cleaned out the girls bedroom, another day I managed to tackle dusting some window ledges. I have a sense of satisfaction if I can take care of at least one small “bite of the elephant” each day!

My mind is muddy and it’s hard to concentrate. Perhaps by next post I’ll have some exciting news to share!

Linking up the Sarah at the Joy-Filled Life

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